How much sense does it make to open your arms, let someone in and takeover your life-as-you-know-it? My-Boid would be the first one to jump into this conversation and say - but-this-is-what-you-always-do. And this-is-why-people-like-you-can't-handle-relationships. You give too much, and along with that gift comes a set of often-unreasonable expectations. Which perhaps nobody can be realistically expected to meet. And that's when it-all-comes-crashing-down.
Oh-well. I asked for it.