I really don't know. The obvious answer would be no they aren't. But everything isn't black and white, it really isn't.
No, it really isn't.*sigh*
i want to know this too.
I would venture to say "NO". We have enough insecurity around and dealing with it in our relationships is just not worth wasting our lives on.
Relationships make us feel vulnerable, *people* make us feel insecure. We keep such people in our lives because we're afraid of finding out what life without them would be like. In every case, life without such people is peachy.
It depends if they cause it actively or passively. Is the person using you? If so, are they using you in a way which is harmful, or trivial, in which case the issue may be that it's a one dimensional relationship. Then, once that is determined what the most dynamic issue is, if it can be, is it major, minor, or indeterminate? If the person is actively & deliberately causing you harm, and not just an annoyance... ... What choice do you have?
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